After I was sworn in as
State Historian of Texas in 2012 by Governor Rick Perry, my wife Karon smiled and
announced that she would serve as my Chief of Staff. There were chuckles around
the room, but I knew that Karon had every intention of committing her considerable
abilities to the office of Texas State Historian.
When we married in 1993, Karon began
to refer to us as "Team O'Neal." Karon and I were faculty members at
Panola College in Carthage, her home town. A 1979 graduate of Carthage High
School, Karon was an honor student at Panola College and played a busy role in
student activities, especially in the music department. She majored in
mathematics at Texas A&M University (Class of '83), and soon earned a
Master's Degree in math at Stephen F. Austin State University. After six years
as lead math teacher at Carthage High School she joined the Panola College math
faculty. She became a master teacher, and served for several years as chair of
the Math and Science Department.
Meanwhile, she generously aided my
efforts in the field of history. Twice per summer she drove one of the two
college vans across the Lone Star State during my Traveling Texas History
classes. She served as women's counselor during my Traveling European History
courses. Karon accompanied me on research trips, usually in the West, greatly
accelerating my efforts.
So when Karon stated that she
intended to be Chief of Staff of the Texas State Historian, I knew that I was
going to enjoy exceptional assistance from a hard-working, competent, and
dedicated volunteer. During the past four years my Chief of Staff has attended
programs with me throughout Texas. At the San Jacinto Monument on April 21,
2014, she snapped photos as I delivered the keynote address, then she posed -
rammer in hand - with a reenactor cannon crew.
At fourth-grade Texas history
cowboy programs she wore Lone Star boots and buckskin gauntlets and a big hat,
and during my presentations she quietly pointed to various items of cowboy
attire as I referred to them. The little girls, especially, were mesmerized.
In addition to helping with my manuscripts, Karon learned to create blogs. My predecessor, Dr. Light Cummins, posted blogs during his two-year tenure. When we read them, Karon and I realized it was essential for us to continue the State Historian blog. At first we posted at lonestarhistorian, but after Google purchased Blogspot we posted at lonestarhistorian2. Between these two sites we have posted nearly 200 blogs during the past four years. Each week I write up my recent history adventures - in pencil, of course - and Karon types it and inserts several photos that we have taken of the subject events. It was quite a learning process for Karon - a process I never could have mastered - but she persevered, as always and she has produced one blog after another.
Until this one. A few days ago Karon died suddenly and unexpectedly - she was only 55. She had suffered from MS for more than 15 years, but we continued to travel and research and write and visit our family - four daughters, three sons-in-law and seven grandchildren, who loved to play and read with "GrandKaron." We were about to leave on a trip to watch a granddaughter play basketball last week when Karon's heart stopped beating. There has been a tremendous outpouring of sorrow and love in Carthage and at Panola College, where the school flag was flown at half mast. Central Baptist Church was packed with with hundreds of mourners during her funeral services.
What a wonderful story you have told, Mr. State Historian of Texas. I see why you loved that very competent Chief of Staff. Thank you for sharing so much with us.
ReplyDeleteI am saddened that your wife has left this earth. Perhaps to prepare your next "home?"
Lovingly,
Susie (Sharpley) Nelson
Clark Fork, Idaho
She was loved because she loved. Team O'Neal, thanks for sharing your story
ReplyDeleteBill - as I noted to you earlier, this is simply the PERFECT tribute to Karon - her sweet, competent, talented persona, and the loving respect that you two shared. I believe this is truly your all-time absolute best piece of writing. Berri - a wonderfully crafted post, in a very challenging tech environment. I am super proud of you both, You Know Who
ReplyDeleteGod bless you and your family Bill. I'm glad I got to be around Karon.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this lovely and inspirational tribute. My condolences on your loss. I recall her ebulient nature well from the times we chatted. A wonderful woman.
ReplyDeletePrayers for you and your family.
Chuck Reid (Carolyn's son)
Such a beautiful tribute.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this tribute. Prayers for continued comfort for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteBill, first.. my condolences on your loss of such a beautiful, wonderful lady. I had intended to attend her services, but had too many irons in the fire.
ReplyDeleteWhat a joy it must have been to have had her as your "Chief of Staff" these 4 years and not only as just an 'executive' staff member but one willing to roll up her sleeves, dig in getting her hands dirty and help carry the load. What a trooper! But, having done ALL of that WITH her MS makes it all greater still.
While I haven't read all your blogs, the ones I have read were excellent, so I know Karon proved her worth as COS.
Berri's certainly filled in aptly with this one and I know Mike will do so as well, on subsequent blogs.
Finally, a Thank You for serving 'more than aptly' as the State Historian for the Great State of Texas.
You and your family will continue to be in my prayers.
Brian A. McDaniel
She taught me Geometry in high school, and was one of my top favorite teachers. I'm sorry to see her go.
ReplyDeleteMr. O'Neal,
ReplyDeleteI'm both saddened and gladdened to read this.
Saddened obviously for the absence in our hearts we all feel - never to see her copper hair or bright smile again. She taught me a great deal, and I always thought geometry easy until I spoke with many others through my life. Karon made it easy and enjoyable. She also encouraged me to participate in UIL competitions and Academic Decathlon.
I'm gladdened, sir, that you two found each other and obviously shared a passion for teaching others, sharing history and sharing your obvious joy. I feel you both enriched each others' lives.
I'm grateful she is out of pain, but as with many, she left us too soon and leaves a gap in our hearts.
I hope you find more peace than grief, more love than loss and more happiness than sadness over the coming months and years. You know better than anyone, it was a pleasure to know Karon and she was a wonderful addition to our lives.
Your (still) noble serf, milord. (And yes, I still wear the chain mail when I can and tell others how you knighted me.)
Mr. O'Neal,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Mrs. O'Neal had such a bright spirit. I pray you find comfort in the days to come. I know you will miss her.
Amber Friday-Brown
Mr. O'Neal,
ReplyDeleteYour wife was my calculus professor at Panola College. I'm so saddened to have heard she passed away. I have so many wonderful memories of my time in her class and at Panola. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time!
Sincerely,
Suzanne Pharr
Bill,
ReplyDeleteI am heartbroken for you in reading this post. I never had the privilege to meet your wife, but I know she must have been a wonderful and caring person. I feel like I knew her, though the stories that you always shared with me. I will pray for you to find peace with her passing and to be able to relish in your memories of her. Thoughts and prayers from Dallas and I to you...my sweet friend!
With love and prayers,
JoNeita Kelly
Bill, Ann and I were so saddened to learn of your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray that you have strength to carry on your good work and I was pleased to learn that you will be speaking at Childress next week. Wish we could be there.
ReplyDeleteDavid & Ann Murrah
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I was fortunate to have both of you as my teachers at Panola. She was a wonderful woman and one of the best teachers that I ever had.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I was fortunate to have both of you as my teachers at Panola. She was a wonderful woman and one of the best teachers that I ever had.
ReplyDeleteBill, Karen truly was a treasure and will be missed by us all. Please let me know if I may be of assistance in any way.
ReplyDeleteCharles Nugent